The rebirth includes giving our lives to Jesus. When we give our lives to Christ we are not our own anymore. Paul said “ Jesus died for all, so that they who live might no longer live for themselves, but for Him who died and rose again on their behalf” 2 Corinthians 5:15 (NASU).
Some people go through traditional formalities but do not give their hearts to Christ. If we have given our lives to Him then He owns us. Does He own you?