It takes practice to get good at anything. Learning to love can be the same way. We weren’t born to love naturally, but we can all do it. I learned love by what I saw others doing.
Love starts with action. It isn’t only a person being kind to someone. It’s being kind when you don’t fell like being kind. It’s expressed by what we do that isn’t easy to do.
Genuine love will risk suffering so others can avoid it.