If we talk about it to much it can become a fuel for destroying others. Proverbs says, “Without wood, a fire will go out, and without gossip, quarreling will stop. Just as charcoal and wood keep a fire going, a quarrelsome person keeps an argument going. The words of a gossip are like tasty bits of food; people like to gobble them up.” Proverbs 26:20-22 (NCV).
We need to know when enough has been said. Once you know, say no more.