Before I experienced Christ love those things were prevalent in my life. Life was all about me. Until I was born again and died to myself I was incapable of true love. I could perform deeds of kindness but I would ultimately revert to self centeredness when the pressure was on. I needed Gods love in my heart. In Romans it says, the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us” Romans 5:5 (NASU).
Have you found Gods love?