In Corinthians the Bible says, Love patiently accepts all things. It always trusts, always hopes, and always remains strong”1 Corinthians 13:7 (NCV).
If our mates fell in love with us because of our gifts and abilities we should be thrilled to have been as fortunate as to have been given those gifts and abilities. That got our mates interested in us in the first place. Now is our chance to be everything we vowed to be.