And we don’t get others to change by telling them what they are doing is wrong. Others change when they feel change is necessary. If we are right about what we believe then others will look into our lives and realize they need to change. We may not like what is in someone else’s life but we have to remember they may not like what is in ours either. Our agendas are only compatible with our own lives. When forced upon others, they destroy relationships and keep us from being supportive of one another.
If you want someone to change then you have to make them want to change. That’s only something love can do.