God understands our human frailties. That does not mean He likes them. He expects us to work at letting His word change us through the process of time.
It’s our avoidance of pain that causes a lot of our pain in life.
For example, the more an athlete pumps weights, the stronger they become. The stronger they are the less pain they feel in lifting the same weights. The strength they get from working through the pain reduces the amount of pain they experience.
Learn to do the hard things God requires. In the long run it will be worth it all.