True Christianity includes values, outlooks and attitudes that are characterized by a love of God and reverence for God. It involves letting God change our hearts which helps us change our ways. It looks hypocritical because it’s immature.
Mature Christianity should reflect God’s goodness and meekness along with patience and self-denial. It includes a peace that passes all understanding and is overflowing with kindness, integrity, morality, purity, justness, and faith.
Becoming a Christian involves a denial of the natural man in exchange for a "spiritual man". It is a rejection of the "way of the world" for the "way of God", and can only be found in the name and life of Jesus.