In our quest to help others mature more quickly we will often try to speed their maturity. Our pushing them can be like pulling up on the leaves of a plant in order to make it mature more quickly. That only damages the plant. Not all crops have the same number of days to maturity.
If we want others around us to mature properly we need to be patient. We need to nurture them at their roots.
That’s what God does with us. He nurtures us with His word and patiently waits for our fruits to develop.