Well, maybe it was because God gave you the abilities to do what it is you do?
Next time you are in one of those situations, instead of being frustrated about having to be the one to handle those situations, tell yourself that you get to be the one.
The Bible says “Love does not demand its own way” 1 Corinthians 13:5 (NLT). That means love would not complain about having to be the one to handle those certain situations.
It is so much more gratifying to say “I get to be the one instead of I have to be the one”. Try it. I think you will like it!